Hey you, I know you have been in this situation before or going through it now. You like someone and crushing on them but they actually don’t feel the same way about you. You feel it’s love, you are confused, you don’t know how you can get over them. Well, as your best friend forever we are going to talk about it today: Here are 7 top tips to get over a crush who doesn’t like you back.
1. ALLOW YOURSELF TO EXPLORE THE FEELINGS
You can’t help it, you have feelings. Sometimes we can’t control who we have feelings for, suppressing it might make it worst where you end up projecting transferred anger to an unrelated subject, therefore allow yourself to explore these feelings by thinking about them and evaluating why you have these feelings for this particular person. Are they even worth it?
2. FOCUS ON THEIR WEAK POINT
You know like how when you love someone you focus on the good things about them, and nurture it in your mind so much? Use the reverse on your unresponsive crush. Focus on the things about them that turn you off, nurture them until it totally turns you off about them.
3. FIND A NEW HOBBY
If you find something else to occupy your mind maybe you will forget this crush. A new hobby could be something as simple as early morning or evening walks, press play and listening to music, or even exercising.
Whichever hobby you choose make sure it’s one that keeps your mind active and helps you forget this crush that will never blink back an eye at you.
4. TELL THEM HOW YOU FEEL
You have to be tricky about this one. It might work or not, but if we don’t try, how do we know it’s not going to be? Tell your crush you like them and go ahead and ask them out in a subtle nice sexy, but respectful manner. Just take the bull by the horn.
5. SPEAK TO SOMEONE ELSE ABOUT THESE
Speaking out about your feelings could make you feel better. You could express your feelings to someone who can be able to help you and give you the best guidance or just listen to you. It could be a close friend, a psychologist, a relationship expert, or even your mirror.
6. AVOID THEM
Ever try to fit into tight small shoes? That’s how a forced relationship appears. Avoid them, walk away, move on, save yourself the pain.
You can’t force someone to like you back. Life is like a circle, you can’t like everyone that likes you, everyone you like, can’t like you back. This doesn’t mean that you are not worth it, it could all mean that the person is not meant for you.
7. TAKE BACK CONTROL
What do you want? Of all things to desire, are you sure you want someone who doesn’t want you? Get over your crush that doesn’t like you, by taking back control of your own self and emotions.
Find and do activities that would boost your ego and make you feel like you are on top of the world. Focus on the things you are good at and explore them.
Ever had a crush on someone, how did you handle it?