Cheating has been making its wave across the Internet recently. Some people believe that cheating is planned, while others believe it’s inevitable among men as they are polygamous beings. The comparison is inconclusive among women, as well as men. Cheating can be a well pre-thought plan or a sudden incident, but whichever way it happens, cheating is cheating and today I will be sharing with you the top 7 reasons why your lover is cheating.
NO REASON
Some people just cheat for no reason. You know, just like you have done so many things in your life in the quest to try out something new for no reason. Yes, people do cheat for that same reason as well. Just for no reason.
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REVENGE FOR THEIR OWN GOOD
If you have cheated on your lover or they suspect you are cheating, they might be out to do an act of revenge on you. Your partner may say they have forgiven and forgotten, but don’t let your guide fully down for they may not feel good or better if they haven’t revenge.
OUT OF SELFISHNESS
Some people are just selfish and only care about their feelings. So they just go ahead and cheat to satisfy those selfish feelings and are not necessarily worried about how the other person feels. It can also be a feed their ego game.
FOR NEW FOOD
Some people see sex as food and believe they can not be eating one type of food every time. So they need to eat a different meal for breakfast, lunch, and supper.
With this, they don’t believe in just staying with one person but diversifying and trying new sexual partners at every chance they get.
FOR FREAKY TRIAL
Some people can’t just help it. They like that freaky thing where they can get to sneak around, sleep around, and have more than one partner. They may have one partner who they want to be with all the time but they are open to trying out some freaky stuff outside of their normal relationship.
Most times their regular partners are not happy to try this freaky stuff with them and hence it is convenient to get a random stranger to trying it out with.
LOW SELF ESTEEM
People dealing with low self-esteem can use sex as a cover-up. Having sex with multiple partners could play a role in ego-boosting, giving them something to brag about and make themselves feel on top of the world.
NOT SURE ABOUT THEIR SEXUALITY
Some men are with women but sleep with the other gender in secret. Vice versa. This could be a reservation arising from the stigmatization of owning your sexuality or maybe they are still in the stage of figuring out their sexuality.
Whichever reason your lover is cheating, remember that it is their choice to cheat and you may not necessarily be the problem. A man or woman who wants to cheat would cheat, even if you offer them a pound of your flesh.
What other reasons do you think that causes people to cheat? Let me know in the comment box below.
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You are an amazing writer
Thank you 🙏
Dear sonma, I think some people cheat because of money, like in a family where there’s no money and they eat from hand to mouth… It can cause the children especially the girls to cheat or sleep around just to put food on there table..
This is great mama pink 😍
It’s impressed, let me work on myself too
Nice one, very interesting
Yh, very interesting and educative
Nice one, very interesting
Let me work on my self
Nice piece of write up here@DearSonma, I love how you sum it up with the last paragraph. Kudos and more grease to your elbow 😉
Glad you enjoyed it.
Yes, is important to do so
Very impressive!!!!..
I will work on myself
Working on myself is the first step
Self improvement is the best option
The one I hated most is calling sex food, and the saying “they can be eating the same food Everytime, but to me momma, can’t they change the styles in which they’ve been doing it instead going out there. Good morning momma Dearsonma
Some people are wild 😝.
This one cool me ooo.. cheating for no reason… It’s really painful..
Keep it up @dear sonma
Peer pressure can also make one cheat…
Staying with friends who brag about sleeping with more than 1 woman can make one try same too thereby cheating
These are also true. Peer pressure is really not a good thing to succumb to.🤷🏾♀️
For the purpose of counting scores as well
Guys do brag about how many women they’ve slept with
Foolish reason but makes them happy…
Yea. So it can tally with number 6 where they have low self esteem, sleeping around could help boost this ego while they count.
Thanks for this wonderful article dearsonma, you are amazing