THE FUN OF EATING YOUR CAKE AND HAVING IT
Anyone in the position of eating their cake and having it will jump on the opportunity to do so, cheaters enjoy the fun of having to play the games and winning at it. A married man who has a side chick and a wife would want to play it safe as he enjoys both sides of the cake and wouldn’t want to give up one for the other,
MEN WHO HAVE MISTRESS ENJOY THE FUN OF THE TWO
A man who has a wife and a side chick sees that two are better than one, so if he leaves his wife to marry his side chick then he loses one and why lose one when you can have two?
THEY HAVE WHAT THEY WANT
If it’s a dynamic that works for him and his wife and the side chicks understand, why disrupt it? He wants a wife and a side chick and he got them, so no need to give up his wife for the side chick. You do be surprised how many women prefer their husband to have one side chick that she knows about than him sleeping around with different women. Some women don’t care if the man has a side chick, once she is still married to him and he takes care of her and her kids she is ok been the wife while the side chick runs the sideshow.
DIVORCE AND STARTING OVER IS NOT EASY
Divorce is never an easy process, especially when assets, children, and money are involved. In most cases when divorce happens the man is urged to pay spousal support and the woman might make it a hell for him to see his own children, so its easy to keep the wife than divorce.
ITS JUST A FUN FOR THEM, NOTHING SERIOUS
Most of these men are just having fun and like to be married. The stability that marriage brings to them and respect it accords them from the society can not be replaced by the fun the side chick gives to them occasionally. So they see side chicks as a fun game thing and when its all over they go back to their wife at the end of the day. Nothing serious, no strings attached, no hard feelings.
THE TABOO OF MARRYING A SIDE CHICK
Some men have values upon values and respects taboos, people will frown upon it when they hear that the man left his wife for a side chick, this might affect his connections with friends, families, business partners. Therefore they just keep it all on the low key, just go have their fun and omit the marriage narrative with the side chick.
THE SIDE CHICK DONT WANT MARRIAGE
Truth be told some men have fallen in love with their side chicks and are willing to risk it all and start it all over with them for the sake of finding new love but the side chicks do not want to. The same way men have sex for fun, a side chick might just be there for the fun and or financial support of it and wouldn’t want to risk an upgrade that would make another woman her better replacement. She is just there to have fun and cash out and fun it is.Follow Me On Social Media